Sender avatars, PDF password preview, contacts autosave, account-view + Trash/Spam auto-purge, UI polish

Sender avatars (privacy-safe, server-fetched, cached):
- New GET /api/avatar resolves Gravatar (d=404) then the sender domain's favicon
  under the SSRF guard, Redis-cached (hit+miss); gated by SENDER_AVATARS_ENABLED.
  GuardedResponse gains raw bytes. Shown in the mail list, reading pane, People
  panel, and Contacts (overlay that falls back to initials on a miss).

PDF preview:
- Password-protected PDFs now prompt in-place and retry (pdf.js PasswordException),
  with a clear error for other load failures instead of a blank overlay. The
  password is remembered per attachment until the thread is left; clicking the
  field no longer dismisses the overlay.

Contacts:
- Autosave reply recipients: message.sent now carries to/cc (name+email); the
  contacts plugin subscribes and adds any non-contact recipients to the Autosaved
  group. Contact avatars show the gravatar/favicon via /api/avatar.

Mail views / retention:
- Clicking an account shows all its mail except Trash/Spam (was inbox-only).
- Daily cron autopurge_trash_spam permanently deletes Trash/Spam older than
  TRASH_RETENTION_DAYS (default 30; 0 disables) — server EXPUNGE + local rows.

UI polish:
- Ultimo signet logo in the Mail/Calendar/Contacts sidebar header and collapsed
  rail; consistent 11px top margin and vertically-aligned header row across states
  (fixed-size flex icon buttons); SVG favicon on the browser tab.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 <noreply@anthropic.com>
Claude-Session: https://claude.ai/code/session_01U72FZiF1W1pb8XxyWBTREA

frontend/index.html

@@ -3,6 +3,7 @@
   <head>
     <meta charset="UTF-8" />
     <meta name="viewport" content="width=device-width, initial-scale=1.0" />
+    <link rel="icon" type="image/svg+xml" href="/ultimo-logo-signet.svg" />
     <title>Webmail</title>
   </head>
   <body>